The annual much-anticipated Homecoming dance is November 3rd. Although that seems far away, you might want to start thinking about a date sooner rather than later so Homecoming essentials such as color coordinating dress and tie, dinner groups, and mums are not rushed.

Remember that before you score the date, you have to get past the proposal, and we all know that these days those are anything but extravagant. To make this process a little less stressful, LC Howler provided a list of Do’s and Don’ts to ensure that you have the perfect “Hoco” proposal.

DO:

Know your date. Some people enjoy being asked in front of a large group of people, while others prefer to be asked in private. Your date will be more likely to say yes if you choose an idea that is personal to them and they are comfortable with.

Be original. Year after year, people rotate through the same cheesy puns, and it’s starting to get old. Try to think outside of the box and come up with an idea that no one has ever done before! It’ll be worth it in the long run.

Embrace the awkwardness. There’s no easy way to surprise someone, and there’s definitely no easy way to yes or no (but hopefully not no). So just accept beforehand that it’s going to be awkward in the moment, but in the end, it will be something to laugh and reminisce about.

DON’T:

Don’t be annoying. What one person thinks is cute, someone else might think is annoying. Less is more.

Don’t assume that your potential date is obligated to say yes. Remember, you are asking them, not telling them; they have a choice. If you are concerned about rejection, consider asking in a private setting.

Don’t stress! Believe it or not, this task is intended for fun. So even if it doesn’t go the way you were hoping, call up your closest group of friends and spend the evening with them. Homecoming is what you make it, so have fun!